Wedding Questionnaire (And Why It Really Matters)
By Daniel | dkphoto.ie
So your wedding photographer has sent you a questionnaire, and you’re not sure where to start? Don’t worry — it’s not as complicated as it looks.
These tips aren’t rules — they’re just what 1,600+ weddings have taught me. Most of the stress I see on wedding days is easily avoided with a bit of simple planning, and I’m here to help make your day as smooth and enjoyable as possible.
I’ve seen firsthand how a little bit of planning makes a massive difference to how your day flows — and how your photos turn out.
The Morning — Where Most Weddings Go Wrong
I’ll be honest with you: the morning is where most weddings run into trouble or run late. When the morning runs late, stress creeps in, and that affects everything — your mood, your photos, and how you feel walking up the aisle.
Here’s the good news: it’s totally avoidable with one simple fix.
Hair & Makeup Order
Never leave the bride until last- most important people first! The recommended order is:
- Mother of the Bride
- Chief Bridesmaid
- Bride
- Remaining Bridesmaids
- Other family members
The bride should never be last. When the bride and her mum are still in the makeup chair as the photographer and videographer are trying to leave, it means missed photos, missed moments, and a rushed start to the most important day of your life.
“Anyone who’ll be helping the bride into her dress should have their hair and makeup done first.”
Please don’t tell your makeup artist this is the photographer’s request — just say it’s your preference and explain why.
Planning Your Morning Timeline
(It’s Easier Than You Think)
Grab a piece of paper. Write down your ceremony time and work backwards from there.
- Your photo and video team needs to arrive at the ceremony 30–40 minutes before it starts, plus travel time from where you’re getting ready.
- That means if we’re leaving the house at 1 pm, the bride needs to be fully dressed by 12, giving us a full hour for getting-ready photos, a first look with Dad, final touch-ups, and a few calm moments before we head off.
It sounds simple, but this one calculation can completely transform how your morning feels.
Did you know? Around 50%-80% of weddings I shoot, the bride doesn’t get any videos of getting into her dress — because video team has already left to set up at the ceremony.
A little extra time in the morning fixes this completely.
What About the Lads?
- If groomsmen are within a 10-minute drive, and let’s say the ceremony is in the church at 1 pm, we’d love to start with them at 10 am sharp — fully dressed and ready to go. Please check with them first and let us know in the questionnaire if that works.
- If they’re staying in the same hotel as the ceremony (e.g. 2 pm on-site ceremony), we start around 11 am with Lads
- Not in the shower. Not at breakfast. Ready. 😄
- If it’s more than a 10-minute drive, I’ll meet the groom and groomsmen at the church — or wherever the ceremony is taking place — 30 minutes before it starts.
Wedding Ceremony
In the questionnaire, I just need to know about any special moments — a sibling playing guitar, a reading from a child, a surprise element. These are the moments I’ll make sure to capture, so don’t assume I’ll know about them unless you tell me. No need list of moments to capture! :)
Skip the Greeting Line at the Wedding?
In many cases — yes. Instead of standing outside the ceremony greeting every guest one by one, you could be mingling at the drinks reception with a glass of prosecco in your hand, enjoying the day with your guests in a much more relaxed way.
At venues with on-site ceremonies at around 3 pm or 3:30 pm, such as Rathsallagh House, Ballymagarvey Village or Clonabreany House, skipping it is almost essential.
But it’s your day — we’ll figure it out together.
Family Photos at Your Wedding — The Most Important Part of the Questionnaire
Be specific. I only shoot what’s on your list. I don’t know your family, so I won’t know you want a photo with just your brother unless you write it down.
- ✅ “Bride + Groom with Mum and Dad (bride’s side)”
- ✅ “Bride with sister Sarah only”
- ❌ “Family photos” — too vague
Keep the list realistic. A long list sounds great, but we often don’t get through it — organising family groups on a wedding day takes real time.
Delegate someone to gather people — a bridesmaid or sibling with a printed copy of the list. This is not something the bride, groom, or photographer (as we don’t know your family) can manage on the day. It makes a huge difference.
Quick Reminders- Sparklers/Sunsets
🌅 Summer — plan for a golden hour sunset shoot. Worth every minute.
✨ Winter — sparklers are stunning.
But never plan sparklers in summer — it simply doesn’t get dark enough.
The best feeling? Waking up the morning after your wedding, having breakfast, and realising it was the most stress-free, joyful day of your life — and that you barely even noticed your photographer was there
📖 Full timeline guide: dkphoto.ie/bride-guide/guide-timeline-wedding-day
Daniel | dkphoto.ie
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